Maybe...

Damn winter weather.

Matthew was supposed to come today, but he moved out of his apartment in Mobile and it took longer than expected so we decided that he should come tomorrow. Well The glorious storm that is extending from Ohio to Kentucky and even to Tennessee is going to rain ice down in every Major city he drives through. So he is going to get up in the morning, like he is coming and then he is going to see how pissed off mother nature was and if he can come up.

In better news, Jennie from Bridgestone Apartments called and said that we are good to go with an apartment. Which is funny because she called a few months ago and said the same thing and I called back and left her a message and said that I wasn't interested anymore. Lucky for Matthew and I she didn't get that message. I called Matthew and told him that they are still holding an apartment for us/him and that I didn't care that it was in my name because I would be moving in anyway..... eventually.

I told him that I think that it would a good idea for him to think about it, because he isn't going in to this totally blind because he has seen the apartments and he knows the rent and such. He still wants to talk to Jennie which is fine but from day one of knowing he was the one making the move I wanted to make this as non stressful as possible and I told him that I think if the apartment is taken care of he can focus on job hunting.... he still wants to look.

I guess I am not in the MAN mind frame. I don't know why it bothers me so much, I guess I should let him find an apartment for him but I have to live there too, so don't I get a say? hmmm... it is a sticky situation. I see it as, it is close to my mom's so when we aren't living together I don't have to travel more than I have too. I didn't think my traveling from work to school to home would drain me but it does. It has a bathroom for each of us, and lets face it, it is really for the best, I am not a morning person in any sense of the term and I would be lying if I said that it wouldn't bother me to have to share a bathroom at 6am with a boy. I think it makes more sense, and his mom agrees that it is for the right price. I guess it is a guy thing, he wanted to find the apartment, and be a mans man. I wish he would just see.

Well with the weather the way it is/going to be, he may just have to take it the apartment because he may not be able to get up here to apartment hunt. We shall see how this unfolds.....

until next time.

love to all,

a future Mrs.